Is my Sensei rude?
(Texas)
Is it rude for a sensei to strike you in the back of the head as you are following through with a strike? He does this sometimes, and never really explains why or comments on my error.
I have no problem with receiving hits, but it strikes me as rather rude for him to hit me where my
men doesn’t afford any protection.
Answer: Thank you for your question. This is another question that is probably common in the
kendō world.
Is it a very hard strike or a tap? Where exactly does your
sensei hit? Is it where
menbuton (the top of the helmet or
men) covers or where only
tenugui (a thin towel) covers?
If you don’t know why he is doing it or you think you are doing something wrong, you should ask your
sensei.
I do tap on the
menbuton when my students are passing through to remind them that I am still behind them so they have to take a good
zanshin. It is a tap not a strike (whack) and I do make sure that I tap on
menbuton not the back of the head only protected by
tenugui.
Kendō has many “unrevealed” etiquette/manners so if you do not know you should ask.
Hope this helps.